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Cinema Therapy — Charlyne Gelt, Ph.D. Non-Fiction Synopsis: The couples’ incessant, fast-paced tête-à-tête focuses on the impact of digital technology on media, entertainment, the arts, literature, politics, and even private life where there are tectonic shifts from privacy to the radical transparency of social media and blogs. Their conversation take place in bars, restaurants, cafes, at informal dinners, hasty breakfasts, dinner parties, and affairs, which make-up the bulk of pillow talk discourse. Each character has a professional stake in the enormous technical changes that have already happened or are just about to happen. Their jobs, like their sexual partners, are in flux. Psychological Implications Behind the “French literary life” veneer is dysfunction. The characters lack emotional intimacy in their non-monogamous, ever-changing relationships, and there’s an absence of political and family values. As the characters get increasingly caught up in dealing with the challenges, uncertainties, and consequences of their personal romances and ever-changing professional lives, the more dysfunctional they seem to get. The therapeutic environment is about listening to the psychic reality of the patient. Thus, we are driven by having to view that reality different from our own version of it. From a therapist’s perspective, listening as the characters try to justify his or her strategies to deal with their emotionally topsy-turvy world, we can sense their wounds and unmet needs. Does that mean we need to move past our own limited, if not judgmental, views of how others choose to live their lives? Can we benefit by gaining a different, perhaps less idealized, perspective? Actually, Non-Fiction seems to encourage us, the viewers, to confront and reflect on our own lives and values leading us to make changes so that our lives will become more worthwhile. “But some things do not change,” someone states. What holds value for us? What is true for us? Even in an unstable, confusing world, while some things change, other things remain the same. That is one of the film’s main points. Change will keep on happening. It’s what we choose to do with that fact that counts. |
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